Question 1

What is an attachment style?

Accepted Answer

A pattern of relating shaped early in life — secure, anxious, avoidant or disorganised. Knowing yours predicts and explains most recurring dating friction.

Question 2

How do I know if it is a real red flag?

Accepted Answer

Pattern over incident, contempt over conflict, and how they treat people who cannot help them — those three signals matter more than any single moment.